Your definition of envy as helpless greed is a great insight!
People not only have greed for things, but greed for dominance. They want to be the alpha dog - but are helpless to be that. Hence the Social Justice demands.
Things are so often just placeholders for dominance. They want a Lexus XYZ because they want to be dominant. The leather seats are just impractical symbols of financial power and thus dominance.
Conservatives (especially rational conservatives) have a sense of Self-Sovereignty that is relatively immune to getting caught up in others' dominance struggles. We see ourselves as dominant in any social situation. Nicely, kindly dominant but still dominant. We rule ourselves absolutely.
Perhaps that is why I neither bow to king nor politician nor God. I just can't see myself as that submissive.
