WHAT IS THE DRIVING FORCE OF A GREAT RELATIONSHIP?
An acquaintance the other day asked me what I do, and I told her that I’m a Marriage and Family Counselor, as well as a Life Coach. Then she asked an interesting question: “Is compromise the key to a happy marriage?”
At first I was tempted to say yes. Compromise is certainly one part of two different people sharing a life together. We can’t do everything we want whenever we want it; we have to find ways of adapting to each other’s needs and inclinations.
But thinking about it a little more closely, I instead said an emphatic, “No.” Compromise is not really the key.
Compromise is kind of like when one person wants a room painted yellow, the other wants it painted blue, and we compromise and get green – but neither of us may even like green. Compromise is sometimes win/win, sometimes not. There are certainly times when we compromise, but it isn’t the driving force of a great relationship.
So what is?





U.S. — WNBA player Caitlin Clark has been declared
Have you seen all the headlines about the RNC lawsuits challenging the dozen House seats and the four Senate seats the Dems won by clear vote fraud, or all Elon Musk’s X posts to his 206 million followers exposing the scandal of 2024 Dem election theft?

The most shocking aspect of President Biden pardoning his own son, Hunter, may be that it was not in the least shocking, given the history of the Biden family.




