IF YOU’RE INTERESTED IN BRINGING OUT YOUR BEST…

[Note from Jack – As you may know, Joel Wade has been a life-time friend ever since he saved my life resuing me off a cliff in Tibet in 1987. Every person in our family – and many of our close friends in TTP have done coaching sessions with Joel --- which is really just a conversation. I can recommend him with complete confidence and certainty.
Joel is one of the easiest people to talk with because he is relaxed, friendly, warm, and naturally sees the best in people. He knows that everyone sometimes wishes they had someone to just listen to them and that is one of his super powers.
He can give feedback or suggestions on how to be happier, more confident, and communicate better with those around them. He’ll have insights on how you can feel less stressed and more relaxed. He is consistently kind and wise.
You can have a one-time conversation with him to connect and then later reach out when there’s an issue, goal, problem or any matter you want to discuss. He is happily married for many decades, a father of two wonderful grown children, and multiple World Champion water polo goalie .
Joel has been writing his Virtue of Happiness column since TTP’s inception back in 2003. This is one of his very best.]
We each have to master ourselves, our own emotions, impulses, willpower, and consciousness. This doesn’t just happen for us, and cannot be done for us by somebody else; it’s an active, deliberate activity. This need doesn’t represent psychological trouble; it’s part of the normal challenge of being human.
Think about it: if we don’t eat right, or exercise, our health will suffer; if we don’t read, or study, or challenge our minds, our intellect will suffer.
Why would it be different for our psychological and emotional health? If we don’t strive to understand and master our emotions and impulses, our emotional and psychological life will suffer.
It’s normal and healthy to have to work at and master our emotions and thoughts; to bring conscious awareness and effort to what’s true about our unique internal experience, and to channel that mastery to strive toward meaningful goals.












