SERIOUS PLAY
A relationship can have complex and unique needs at any given time, so there isn't really a "one size fits all" panacea for troubles. But of all the specific actions we can take to improve our relationships, I have found none that apply as often or as effectively as this:
Be playful.
Sounds easy, doesn't it? But it's more challenging than meets the eye, and there are clear guidelines for it to work:
We have to play as an ally, as a member of the same team; we have to be for our mate, our child, our friend; and the play must have a spirit of love, kindness and optimism, as opposed to cynicism or sarcasm. There cannot be bitterness or resentment clouding the play; it's the combination of creative, interactive flow and positive emotions that elevates us.
If you're up for the challenge, you're in for some pleasant surprises. Here's how to be seriously playful.