CURIOSITY PROVIDES THE ENERGY FOR EXCELLENCE
An essential ingredient for success at anything – beyond the most mundane of rote tasks – is curiosity.
Curiosity is about exploration and discovery; it creates energy, possibilities, and movement.
It also allows us to create relationships, and to grow more deeply and delightfully connected with one another. It allows us to play – and excellence in work can be like play for adults.
In my work as a Marriage and Family Therapist, Life Coach, and Business Consultant, I would be utterly useless without curiosity as a central deliberate practice.
I need to get to know, before I do anything else, who this other person is - or who these people are if it’s a couple or a work team.
I need to be keenly interested in knowing and understanding them, their circumstances, and what their goals and challenges and strengths are. That’s all about curiosity.
Think of your own work, your own family, your own friendships.
With those with whom you enjoy a good relationship, I would bet that you also are curious about who they are as people.
On the other hand, if there are people from whom you feel more distant or critical, you might find that bringing more curiosity about their internal worlds can bring fresh energy and interest – and perhaps greater compassion as well.
In our work, our success and prospects grow with curiosity.
The antithesis of curiosity is a sense of or desire for certainty.
Curiosity is a quality that allows us to deliberately expand our awareness, to explore and search for possibilities.
In contrast, when we look for certainty, we’re looking to end the search, and bring the exploration to a close.
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[This Monday’s Archive was originally published on January 6, 2004. Facts are slippery things, especially when they are inconvenient. Ibn Warraq continues to speak out and publish the inconvenient truths of Islam under his pen name (which means “son of a papermaker”). It is a name that dissident authors have used throughout the history of Islam, who hide in fear for their lives. In 2007 Douglas Murray described Ibn Warraq as one who “refuses to accept the idea that all cultures are equal. Were Ibn Warraq to live in Pakistan or Saudi Arabia, he would not be able to write. Or if he did, he would not be allowed to live.” The culture of Allah is a culture of death.]

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DC is abuzz with a ton of Trump-hating journalists and politicians all of a sudden learning that national security is a thing about which to be concerned.
The American president has lost patience with the Russian leader – so have his own people.
One of the ways we can access some of the hidden strength within us is to look for the people, events, and opportunities about which we can feel grateful.